WHAT IS THAT REALLY MATTERS IN LIFE? Nothing is coincidence and everything happens with the reason

Author: Ellie Leoni

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There are many possible ways how our destiny may unfold into some new pathways, but the important thing is to try anything that we may consider as something that brings us joy and happiness. People are very unique creatures. 

They are not attached to anything and at the same time they are attached to everything what surrounds them, visible and invisible, most of everything to the nature of their own existence. We are nothing and everything at the same time. It means that whatever we may think we can be that and we can express that at a certain moment of our lifetime. There are also the consequences of every single reaction someone is able to make. This is also referred to all the thoughts someone may think, every single idea anyone may ever imagine.

Of course, we should always take care to not hurt someone else with our acts as that creates a very destructive and bad energy. If we simplify the things, we may say: ''What you give out, comes back to you.'' This is so-called and very well known ''The law of attraction''. To understand the real issue, the real essence, we should go far more beyond that concept and understanding. The thing is that we actually don't attract anything, but we do express everything. It is all about expression. With every single reaction we make during our daily routine we already express ourselves in the Universe.  We may not be aware of this simple fact and even if we once become aware of that, we easily forget.

When someone is really annoying, when someone is abusive, very often happens that we are not supposed to react as our life depends on decisions we make. For example, if we can't stand how our colleague or boss behaves at work, we may try to influence. If eventually we can't do anything about that, we may become frustrated and angry as we fell and see that a certain inequity is going on.

No one is able to change another person easily. People are very hard creatures to change if they are not expressing a free will to do that. It is even not necessary to change others although we may consider that something they do is not noble or right. We are not here to control other people's feelings and thoughts. It is a crazy illusion and it is very impossible. Even if we could, it would not make sense at all. Our success, our feelings and all the things we perceive depend only on our individual vision of them. It is not about how someone is very destructive, how someone is trying to offend us, how someone may hate us and do us harm. It is about what is our vision of that and what is our reaction after it happens. Bad feelings spread so quickly and they are very infective if we don't have a kind of protection. The best and only protections are knowledge and awareness about this issue. People often think they will feel better if they spread their bad vibe and make other people feel bad. It creates an illusion of equality as we suppose it is not fair that we suffer meanwhile someone else is happy. This is the mother of all evilness. Therefore, people are doing their best to make lies, humiliate and discredit others just to feel safeties.

Somone who has enough self-confidence would never try to compete with someone else or compare to anyone. We are all unique and we are not here to satisfy some standards and live planned life just to fit the norms. Norms should be there to make life easier and they should serve the people that way, meanwhile people should never be the slaves of their own norms. If someone feels that a certain direction that person goes is right and fulfilling, that is for sure the right way to go.

Meditation is an ancient method which is based on focusing and observing the mind. If we become able to observe our mind critically, taking care that we exclude and eliminate all the negative thoughts that may interfere our thinking during the day, we may get really surprised how many negative thoughts there are present in our consciousness.

Nothing comes all of the sudden and if we are not willing to invest any effort. All the great things which have ever been succeeded were preceded by a huge effort, hope and belief that it will eventually happen. Nothing is coincidence and everything happens with the reason. The clue is that we have a very important responsibility to recognize the things where lay opportunities for a great success or an opportunity for experiencing some great and joyful life moments.

It's been well known in science for a while that the entire Univers is a hologram. It means that no matter how big or small is something, it always contains a piece of information about all bigger and smaller things than the thing of observation is.